Today we remember the death of a man who once
said, "Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for
your country" (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PzRg--jhO8g). John F. Kennedy, a young, charismatic and brilliant leader of the United States died in one of the worst tragedies 50 years ago today (November 22, 1963).
Friday, November 22, 2013
REMEMBERING THE DEATH OF JFK (NOVEMBER 22 1963-2013)
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Friday, November 15, 2013
REMEMBERING FRANCOIS BOVON OF HARVARD AND JEROME MURPHY O'CONNOR OF ECOLE BIBLIQUE
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Tuesday, March 12, 2013
REST IN PEACE: RALPH P. MARTIN (1925-2013)
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Thursday, August 09, 2012
TRIBUTE: ELISABETH MARIA VERBRUGGE (AUGUST 7, 2012)
On my right hand is a Bible. I bring it with me not because I want to read some verses of it, but to let you know that this Bible is a gift from Tante Mary.
In those conversations we used to talk about either church issues or her family: children, grand children and great grand children. Indeed in our last visit few days before her death, she proudly mentioned to us how grateful she was to have four great grand children. We often talked and evaluated on our Sunday Services. While, my wife and I often focussed on technical issues, such as music, style of worship, sermon illustration, multi-media and others, Tante Mary had completely different interests. Tante Mary is deeply rooted in Pentecostalism. To her, the most important thing in Christian life and ministry is being filled by the Holy Spirit. Thus, Tante Mary’s evaluation on our worship services almost always fell into two categories: It is filled by the Holy Spirit or it is not filled by the Holy Spirit. We sometimes used an alternate word: anointing. One day there was a little trouble created by one of our church members. Tante Mary lightly said to me, ‘Don’t worry Pastor Ery, that person is not born again yet.’ Whether her judgments were correct or not, I do not know, but Tante Mary had taught me and the church to go to the basics: that is that the most important qualifications for God’s servants in ministry are born again, the filling of the spirit and God’s anointing – those are far more important that merely technical issues and performances.
One of my best friends, a pastor, told me that she wished to die while she is preaching. Behind that wish, we know that someone is doubly honored when he or she died on duty. Tante Mary as many of us know is a prayer woman. And she died on duty. On her last Sunday in Surrey, she was asked to pray for our teens that were going to have a Bible camp. On the previous week, I explained to her the details of the camp: the speaker, the place, the participants, the theme and everything. On Sunday before the service began, she approached me asking, ‘Pa Ery: what is the theme of the youth Bible camp?’ I answered her: ‘My life is my ministry.’ It was however unusual since she approached me four times with the same question within less than ten minutes. During the worship, she approached me again for the fifth time, but now she smiled saying, I now know the theme: My life is my ministry. That unusual incident tells me that when tante Mary prays for something, she prays for it seriously. She could have simply asked God to bless the teens and Amen. She however decided to make sure that she knew the theme of the camp, and she said it in her prayer that Sunday. That prayer was her last public ministry in Surrey – Though I am sure she remembered the camp, the theme and prayed for it up to her last day on earth. As the theme of the camp, HER LIFE IS truly HER MINISTRY. She died on duty, and therefore is extraordinarily honored.
Now, let me share my last memorable incident with Tante Mary. In November 2009, I visited Vancouver for three weeks, preaching in Vancouver three times, in Burnaby two times and in Surrey three times. Neither was a pastor nor a member of HFAN that time. And I do not think Tante Mary knew that eventually I would become her pastor. After my last service at Surrey, she approached me putting an envelope in my pocket. I want to be open with all of you. It was one hundred dollar. She is the very first person in the entire Canada and off course in the church who with generosity gave me some financial support. To all of you, what Tante Mary did to me may not be too special. To us, it was prophetic: someone who did not know me but my name – and I did not know her either but her name – an elderly and in a foreign land gave me some financial support. My family and I decided to come to Canada and to serve God in this country not because the money Tante Mary gave to me. God however has used tante Mary to be his prophet to tell my wife and I that wherever God calls us to go, God will provide our needs.
Lastly, less than a week before she died, we visited her one afternoon. I was sleepy and tired – and I openly mentioned it to her. Tante Mary again graciously served me with a cup of coffee. That afternoon coffee will always bring my memory to Tante Mary’s generosity. My family and I personally value her friendship and service.
Now to the whole family of Tante Mary (the children, the grand children and the four great grand children whom she is proud of), I on behalf of the whole HFAN Surrey congregation want to let you know how lovely and adorable she had been with us. We love her and we deeply honor her. We pray that this moment of grief may unite the whole family in peace. Amen.
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Monday, July 02, 2012
LUTHER, CHURCH AND THE DEVIL
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Sunday, July 01, 2012
TOGETHERNESS
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SENSITIVITY - EMPATHY - HUMILITY
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Sunday, November 20, 2011
EXCELLENCE - WINSTON CHURCHILL
;Excellence is...Caring more than others think is wise; Risking more than others think is safe; Dreaming more than others think is practical. Expecting more than others think is possible' (Winston Churchill).
My simple quick reflective questions: Do I really have the desire to be excellent? Am I willing to do (to pay) the extra miles (cost) on the road to excellence?
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Thursday, November 17, 2011
Friday, November 11, 2011
THREE REFLECTIONS ON 111111
'This morning, I was reminded that if I start with loving other(s) or thing(s), I will never be able to love God wholeheartedly - but if I first love God with all my heart, I will be enabled to love other(s) or thing(s) in the right perspective - My reflection on Luke 14.25-27'
'If there is no other issue, can broken pieces establish a solid unity? They may or they may not - If there is no other issue, can solid pieces establish a solid unity? They may or they may not. The truth is: unity should never be a goal to pursue, but a means in which we reach glorious goals in the future. To dream a unity as a goal is deceiving'
'A desire to be united should not start with a discussion on what a unity is, but with a sincere attitude of humility'
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Wednesday, November 09, 2011
WORDS TO REFLECT - OCTOBER 2011
'I am convinced even more that our freedom to react is greater than our freedom to act' (Prasadja, October 2, 2011)
'Biblical happiness is passive happiness: YOU ARE BLESSED!' (Prasadja, October 2, 2011)
'Drinking coffee on a regular basis can keep a smile on your face' (Metro, October 4th, 2011)
This certainly is an unusual rare unrivaled commencement address offered by Apple's co-founder, the late Steve Jobs (February 24, 1955 – October 5, 2011) at Stanford University. Jobs offers extraordinary wisdom from his ordinary words and stories. Enjoy the speech: Stay hungry! - Stay foolish! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UF8uR6Z6KLc (October 5, 2011)
'Revenge satisfies no one' (Prasadja, October 10, 2011)
'Although grace is sufficient, pain is real' (my paraphrase of a statement made in our prayer meeting) (October 12, 2011)
'Two prominent reasons why men should appreciate, respect and love their wives: 1) They have taken a big risk to entrust their lives to individuals completely different from them and previously unknown to them; and 2) They have been so dedicated in raising up and loving the kids in the family' (Prasadja, October 12, 2011)
I am reading this challenging book and am eager to learn from understanding its message (October 13, 2011)
'Berbagai doa makan yang sering saya dengar: 1) Bersyukur atas makanan yang telah tersedia; 2) Berkati orang-orang miskin yang tidak dapat makan; 3) Berkati dengan limpah mereka yang telah menyediakan makanan ini; 4) Kuduskan dan berkati makanan ini - maksudnya kira-kira bebaskan dari segala racun dan bahaya; 5) Kiranya makanan ini dapat menguatkan tubuh kami - kira-kira maksudnya supaya tidak saja kenyang, tapi juga sehat; 6) Tolonglah kami untuk dapat menikmati makanan ini; 7) Biarlah makanan yang sedikit ini boleh mengenyangkan semua yang hadir - ingat 2 ikan dan 5 roti; 8) Doa yang panjang sampai akhirnya ketika 'amin' diucapkan, ternyata lupa berdoa untuk acara makannya' (Prasadja, October 15, 2011)
'Listening skill is likely much more important than speaking skill' (Prasadja, October 19, 2011)
‘I am not what I wear; I am not what I say, I am not what I do, I am not what I accomplished – but I am my legacy’ (Prasadja, October 21, 2011)
'After two months of school, more frequent have I heard Keiko said: 'I do not understand what you are saying, Dad!' - Early sign of cultural and linguistic gap between daughter and daddy' (Prasadja, October 21, 2011)
'Lately Elliott has been improving significantly in his vocabulary. One of them is 'psssstttt' - every time he heard daddy is singing' (Prasadja, October 21, 2011)
KEY TO SUCCESS: METHODOLOGY, IDEOLOGY & MOTIVATION + GOAL (Prasadja, October 23, 2011)
A very good friend of mine told me a precious wisdom: 'If you begin with humility, you will never go wrong' (Prasadja, October 24, 2011)
'My major enemies as someone who lives in early third millennium AD: narrow mindedness, one sided judgment, and self righteous mentality' (Prasadja, October 31, 2011)
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WORDS TO REFLECT - SEPTEMBER 2011
'The task of a communication is not to tell the truth to your partner of conversation, but to make that truth available as answer to his or her deepest inquiries' (Prasadja, September 5, 2011)
This is the day she has really been longing for months: returning to school again - only by God's grace (Keiko on the 1st day of school – September 6, 2011)
James D. G. Dunn wrote: 'Hi everyone. You will be saddened to hear that Kingsley Barrett, my predecessor, died last night (6.30 pm, 26.08.11) – aged 94. He was the greatest UK commentator on NT texts since J. B. Lightfoot, and much loved by a wide range of Methodist chapels to which he ministered for about 60 years. He will be much missed, but his commentaries will live on for many years, providing information and insight to future generations of students of the NT' (September 7, 2011)
'The size of your heart is expressed and measured by your patience, gentleness and humility in your relationship and interaction towards one another' (Prasadja, September 7, 2011)
'Life is happier, lighter and even more meaningful if you can apply these fundamental principles: (1) act motivated by sincerity and love; (2) always strive for excellence; (3) do not be afraid of making mistakes - mistakes are not your deadly monsters' (Prasadja, September 8, 2011)
Ten years ago .......... (http://ca.news.yahoo.com/photo s/9-11-the-25-most-powerful-ph otos-1315611364-slideshow/25-m ost-powerful-photos-photo-1315 610966.html)
(September 11, 2011)
'As soon as Solomon finished his prayer, fire came down from heaven and consumed the burnt offering and the sacrifices, and the glory of the Lord filled the temple - As soon as we finished our prayer, .....' (2 Chronicles 7.1; ESV modified) (September 12, 2011)
'Our life is often like a ball: we do not go up before we touch the ground' (Prasadja, September 16, 2011)
What do you think is the reason behind this courageous statement of Jonah “Throw me into the sea,” Jonah said, “and it will become calm again. I know that this terrible storm is all my fault” (1.12)? If you were Jonah and were in his situation, would you do the same? (Prasadja, September 16, 2011)
Exploring National Parks and Cities in the US and
Canada Chicago-Badlands-Mt. Rushmore-Yellowstone-Grand Teton-Glacier-Waterton
Lakes-Calgary-Banff-Lake Louise-Vancouver-Victoria-Seat tle-Portland-Canon
Beach-Red Wood-San Francisco-Yosemite-Las Vegas-Zion-Bryce-Chicago (3 Weeks,
8,500 Miles, September 1996, Alone - 15th year anniversary) (September
19, 2011)
'Most failures begin with ears that are unwilling to listen' (Prasadja, September 19, 2011)
'Carnation is a shy flower. She is humble, gentle and wise. She is not attracting, but is calm. She is neither expressive nor emotional, but is always reflective and peaceful. Her fragrant is not worshiped, but her simplicity shines' (My eulogy on a flower I have closely known for more than 30 years now - Prasadja, September 20, 2011)
'I am too poor to buy humility' (Prasadja, September 21, 2011)
'Two aspects of humility listed in Philippians 1.1: (1) Acknowledging others' significances, and (2) Avoiding self-congratulation upon self-significances' (Prasadja, September 24, 2011)
'Being a respected person does not mean an isolation' (Prasadja, September 25, 2011)
Self-talk, 'I am good' is enough - 'I am the best' is too much and misleading sometimes; 'I am correct' is enough - 'I am the most righteous' is too much and arrogant sometimes (Prasadja, September, 26, 2011)
‘A pillow really add to the quality of your sleep: I confess’ (Prasadja, September 28, 2011)
STOP PRESS: 'TO LEARN & TO RISK' is launched at
http://prasadja-ery.blogspot.c om/
(September 29, 2011)
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